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Respect for ourselves guides our morals; respect for others guides our manners. All women are beautiful, regardless of their looks. You need to touch their soul with respect and appreciation for their inner beauty and you will be rewarded with joy. The heart is more important than the package.
Women are God’s greatest gift to men and we should cherish and protect them, each and everyone. A woman is not an object. She is not something, she is someone. You treat a woman with respect. She is not your toy. She doesn’t owe you something just because you are a man. When she comes to you for comfort, you listen to her, you do not make a move on her .
Grow up and start treating women the way they deserve to be treated. In some respects, a woman is superior to a man. She is tenderer hearted, more receptive, her intuition is more intense. Look at her not just for comfort, but for strength and inspiration and doubling for your intellectual and moral powers. Blot out from your mind any ideas of superiority; you have none.
My brother, men who cherish for women the highest respect are seldom popular with them and to you my sister, be a woman of confidence and self respect, give a man a reason worth fighting for.
By Hostin Marvin Atwiine.
First and foremost, teenage is that special ranging from thirteen to nineteen years though it has been a Herculean task for particular personalities to realize that they have either gone across the boundary or not yet onto the bridge to brag of teenage swag. Before teenage, one is humpless, handsome, beautiful and is a flower for all the fills souls with music, but after clocking thirteen, then it is the vice versa because it is the reign of nature at this time.
Sex is such an influential, contraversial yet substantial topic worth reckoning with though it has been intermingled with sexuality. It actually refers to the intercourse between male and female reproductive organs for the purpose of co-creation, companionship, comfortability and love in addition to make fun for adolescents.
This has however been misinterpreted as far as factual boosting is concerned; It is against the rules that govern human nature that sex should be for pleasure, materialistic fantasies, selfish reasons. It really defeats any morally upright witful being to learn or hear of a common topic of cross-generation Sex, abortion, marital infidelity and other forms of sexual promiscuity. One activist noted that defilers, rapists ought to be treated to a rightful dark banquet to equalize justice. If put to test, the youth of today could prefer sex to food as one older tool told his grandchildren.
“The hunters with spears will never resemble the hunted unless if they hunted with blunt spears – unless otherwise one’s flesh must become a sacrifice to the thirst of the other. And remember that one who shoots an anthrax infected bufallo eats black meat.
Love is the beautifier of the soul; who eats or sells his own soul remains an empty, heartless beast capable of eating its child’s flesh and accompany it with human blood.
In conclusion, the lack of love is the origin of sin in relation to the two great commandments that Moses received from God at Mt. Sinai. Evil deeds are because of failure to release the basics of love either as an individual or society.
Therefore, love is a spring board of life!!!!
By Hostin Marvin Atwiine
When l was in primary school, l had a traumatic cat🐈 experience. It had been halfway across, my legs swinging beneath me. When my hands got sweaty and made me slip, l fell for what seemed like a mile before landing on the ground in a heap. All the other five year old friends laughed […]A long wait to my primary crush….
Some of these things people take for granted. Some people think that because both of you have lips, you should be able to figure out the whole kissing act without so much fuss. Kissing is an art.
How I wish people took it seriously
One can lose a chance with another because of just the way they kiss. All levels of intimacy start when you lower your head or raise her chin and plant the first kiss.
A kiss should be gentle no matter how rough she loves her sex. All good kissers know lip-licking before they place them on the other person’s. For men, that is the easiest way to moisturise those lips. By all means, make sure your lips aren’t dry.
If you have colourless gloss in your bag, take a minute and get ready for that make-out session. Make sure the gloss is not dripping. That is why some people never kiss you. Dripping gloss almost looks like someone is about to sip on cooking oil.
Yuck. It is not written anywhere that man shall lead when you want to kiss. If you want a kiss, go in for it.
Kissing will be fun if you take turns to lead. It will give you different ways to take on the journey of foreplay. One other thing.
When you are going for the kiss, make sure to close your eyes. I do not understand people who kiss with their eyes open.
Like why are you kissing someone you think will take something from your pocket in the first place. It is creepy and a total turn off.
You will get a more rushing sensation from the touch and feel of a kiss if your eyes are relaxed and closed. While at it, make sure to use your hands.
Don’t let your arms awkwardly hang there. A strong man’s hands should be around her back, waist, or on the sides of her face.
Woman, your hands can be in several places, including: around his neck, on the sides of his face, on his stomach (one pack or otherwise), or his biceps. Don’t be afraid to run your fingers through your partner’s hair. Make sure that hair is washed at all times.
One might run their fingers through your hair and come back with all of it or with a cockroach. Sigh.
Dear partner, when the act of kissing in ongoing, softly moan, sigh, or kiss back harder if what they are doing is pleasurable.
My darling the women, don’t wait for when he is entering the promised land to start moaning. When he kisses you, hold his arms, give a little squeeze plus a moan and drive them nuts. Kissing intensifies over time. When you go in for one, don’t dive straight for the tonsils.
Caress, fondle, wrestle with their tongue. Don’t ever bite. If you are going in for the French kiss, start kissing like a normal kiss, then slowly open your mouth and touch your partner’s tongue softly with yours. They will get the hint and go from there.
Use your tongue in the way you want your partner to use his/hers – both of you will naturally do the same. As long as you are comfortable and at ease with each other, your kiss will be pleasurable.
Just empty your mind of everything except the moment at hand, and you will master the art of kissing.
Please note that I did not talk about hygiene intentionally. If you are going to kiss anyone, you better make sure that you can stand your own mouth odour.
Hostin Marvin Atwiine.
The life we live is very short. So as you live it strive to achieve what you can. Love like you have never been loved before. Smile as if it is your first time.
Sing as if God can hear your song, praise tirelessly. Endure hardships and receive them with joy and not sorry. Perseverance is worth a try.
Encourage those who are in low spirits. Serve others without grumbling. Help those in need wholeheartedly and surely your father in heaven who sees your heart , will reward and bless you abundantly. God bless you.
Hostin Marvin Atwiine.
Hey friends, how are you doing over there, hope all is well with you and your family at large.
Just wanted to tell you that I have been away for sometime but am back to get some new experiences over here.
I hope am welcomed.
Hostin Marvin Atwiine
Since I can’t hate you, you and I love each other but we still do, only that our expectations are too high just because we are still young in love.
As a matter of fact, I , me and myself honestly still stuck on you so long as am living like one writer said, “Love is a battle and all you can do is to keep fighting until you win the battle.”
Sometimes its not what you think and not even what you see, life is just funny and in deed so funny sometimes. But to the side of reality and truth, just know that life not a bed of roses . And to be sincere, you are the bet thing I have ever had in my life, and o still need to enjoy the best fun of you the more and more.
Without others knowing in solitude I cried, memories of the past knot up my mind. Beneath the empty skies as the lights start to go on, I cal out my lover’s name as the world wind blows as I pull up my collars.
The regrets and anger make my tears flow again, if anyone had asked I pretended it didn’t hurt me, I feel it hot inside. Everything in the past were nothing but all lies ,but now its the real time to reveal the reality and truth between ourselves.
Now when I miss you, I will allow my heart to miss you and when I think of you, I will allow those thousand thoughts to remain in my mind. When the white snow falls and I think of my love standing in the field. I will go in search of her. The snow covered path opens up and these white snowflakes keep flying back up to the highest skies.
By Hostin Marvin
Marvin, my student and friend, chose to pour his kindness to me on this street. Link is at the bottom of this blog. You see, life is so much, so that we are accustomed to it all; the rain and sunshine, in equal measure. But first, Beyonce is helping me speak what my fingers are […]I Was Here!
My Teacher My Everything.
Dear, Barbra Nyamwiza
How are you doing today, hope all is well with you?
Am also doing good, this very day I come in a new style , a style of letting you know how hard life would have been without a teacher, mentor, friend/buddy like you.
I would like also to express my sincere thankfulness to you for a great work you did towards imparting knowledge in me during the times of wonderful lessons at campus and even now. I know I wasn’t a good student just because sometimes we( students) tend to be stubborn at times but you didn’t let me down just because your insghts helped me to go through to fresh up my minds up to the important level.
Your class and enthusiasm for the material made me genuinely excited to come to class. It helped me to find what truly wanted to do with my career. The worst part would come at time of doing some individual course works which would move mountains almost in all students but i was uplifted by your guidance during class time and outside class as well.
Thanks for the great semester, I loved the books we read ie; THINGS FALL APART , MINE BOY ( One of the short stories), which were my favorites, and the class meeting were always eye-opening, sometimes I would not need the lecture to come to an end but time could sum up all.
Thank you so so much for your passion for our profession and educating. I feel so lucky to have a lecturer like you, finding the just-right-challenge between pushing us to be better, encouraging us, and inspiring us as future leaders. You are appreciated, and hope you feel encouraged as an educator and proud of the work you’ve done with our class.
Thank you for you dedication, organization, enthusiasm and hard work. You are an inspiring lecturer.
May the good Lord who art in heaven make all your dreams come true just because you deserve it. Keep blessed and loved.
Hostin Marvin Atwiine.